I really enjoyed the
study material from this week. There was an article we were required to read
that I had read in a previous semester. I’m so thankful that I was required to
read it again. I remember really enjoying it the first time, but after reading
it again I realized there was quite a bit of incredible information that I had
forgotten the specifics of. That’s what I’d like to share in this week’s post.
The article is “How Will You Measure Your Life?” by
Clayton M. Christensen. In this article Christensen asks three different
questions: First, how can I be sure that I’ll be happy in my career? Second,
how can I be sure that my relationships with my spouse and family become an
enduring source of happiness? And third, how can I be sure I’ll stay out of
jail.
The first question is
given a quote by Frederick Herzberg. He says “the powerful motivator in our
lives isn't money; it’s the opportunity to learn, grow in responsibilities,
contribute to others, and be recognized for achievements. Christensen concludes
that management is the most noble of professions if it’s practiced well. No other occupation offers as many ways to
help others learn and grow, take responsibility and be recognized for
achievement, and contribute to the success of a team. It’s a priceless opportunity
to build people up.
The second question is
answered by teaching about the importance of creating a strategy for your life.
For Christensen, having a clear purpose in life has been essential. It was
something he had to think long and hard about before understanding. He decided
to commit one hour every night to reading, thinking, and praying about why God
put him on this earth. It was time well spent. He applies that knowledge of the
purpose of his life every day. Clarity about our purpose in life will trump
academic knowledge every time.
And the final question
is answered by having us avoid the “marginal costs” mistake. When Christensen
was sixteen he decided that he would not participate in sports on Sunday. This
was a huge upset for his basketball team and coach. They pressured him to make
an exception just this once. He chose not to break his commitment – so didn't
play in the championship game. He says that resisting the temptation whose
logic was “In this extenuating circumstance, just this once, it’s OK” has
proven to be one of the most important decisions of his life. Why? Because his
life has been one unending stream of extenuating circumstances. Had he crossed
the line just that one time, he would have done it over and over in the years
that followed. This is how we stay out of jail. Never assume that crossing the
line is OK “just this once.” He also teaches that it’s crucial to take a sense
of humility into the world. You can be humble only if you feel really good
about yourself – and you want to help those around you feel really good about
themselves too.
I love how he ends his
article: “I've concluded that the metric by which God will assess my life isn't
dollars but the individual people whose lives I've touched. Don’t worry about
the prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped
become better people. Think about the metric by which your life will be judged,
and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be
judged a success.”
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