This week has had some great articles
and videos. I especially liked the article by President Hinckley on “Loyalty”
from the priesthood session, April 2003. He emphasized the importance of
loyalty to God, to the church, to ourselves, and especially to our marriage.
This stood out to me a lot since it seems like the topic of marriage
difficulties comes up so often lately. Sometimes I wonder if there is any one
that is actually happy in their marriage. Of course I’m sure there are many
happy marriages, but it’s very evident that marriage is not always the easiest
thing to be involved in. I look at marriage as being more like a roller
coaster. We have our ups and our downs. Sometimes when stress is high our “downs”
seem to drag on for very long stretches of time. I was actually thinking about
my marriage today as a friend was venting to me the concerns she was
experiencing with hers. She loves her husband, but was just experiencing a moment
of frustration as all of us do. I thought about some of the various down times
my husband and I have experienced and wondered if they could’ve been less “down”
if I had handled them differently. It was a really good moment of reflection
for me. Am I loyal to my husband? I’ve never cheated on him, been dishonest
with him, hurt him, or any other negative thing I can think of. But have I
always been supportive of him? Have I always given him the benefit of the
doubt? Have I always put him before myself? These were tough questions to
honestly answer, but good questions I think we should all take time to
contemplate occasionally to make sure we are doing our part in making our
marriage an enjoyable one that will be strong enough for the eternities.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Saturday, November 9, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry - Week 7
The reading this week that had the greatest impact on me was an article
by Elder and Sister Holland at a BYU devotional in 1986 – “However Long and Hard the Road”
The article is definitely worth reading if anyone cares to take the time to
look it up. He covers many areas such as: Hang
In and Hang On, Victory – Victory at all Costs, Dreams and Visions, Joseph
Smith’s Perseverance, The Early Saints – Fulfillment Ahead, Determination,
Symbolic Problem in Our World – Divorce, and Lessons on Perseverance. The
following paragraph is copied right from this last section on perseverance. It
struck me so strongly, I’d like to share it with you unaltered. To give a
little background on this paragraph, Elder Holland is relaying the story of how
the Salt Lake Temple was built. It’s an amazing story that’s hard to
imagine. So much information was given in this article, but it’s obvious there
is so much more Elder Holland wasn't able to include due to time constraints. I
would love to learn more about the entire history of this event. It’s
definitely one of perseverance. Here’s the paragraph:
·
“Know ye not
that ye are the temple of God?” (1 Corinthians 3:16). Most assuredly you are.
As long and laborious as the effort may seem, please keep shaping and setting
the stones that will make your accomplishment “a grand and imposing spectacle.” Take
advantage of every opportunity to learn and grow. Dream dreams and see visions.
Work toward their realization. Wait patiently when you have no other choice.
Lean on your sword and rest a while, but get up and fight again. Perhaps you
will not see the full meaning of your effort in your own lifetime. But your
children will, or your children’s children will, until finally you, with all of
them, can give the Hosanna shout.
If you get a chance,
please read this article. It is amazing. I think this is the correct address to
it: http://speeches.byu.edu/?act=viewitem&id=873.
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry - Week 6
I like the emphasis
this week’s studies had on ethics, both in the work place and in our personal
lives.
There was a great article included this week written by Charles Handy, “What’s a Business For?” He starts out
by showing how a lack of ethics and virtue can destroy the economy by
destroying trust. Not that this sounds like anything new, but the way he
teaches the details of it makes it very clear how vital ethics is for the
success of not only our personal lives, but of the world as a whole.
He also
goes into detail about how companies need to change their mentality of who owns
the business. Right now, the stockholders seem to be viewed as the owner of not
only the business by the employees as well. Handy realizes the need for the
employees to be viewed as individuals with individual talents, skills and
needs. They should also be given a portion of ownership in the company and
allow them to have a say in how the business is run. This gives them a feeling
of ownership and commitment to the company which will create a greater desire in
them to work for the benefit of the company and not just themselves.
Saturday, October 26, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry Week 5
This week has been packed with great
information. I really liked the article by Elder Tanner, “Success is Gauged by Self Mastery”. He talks about the importance of
self-discipline, self-control, and self-mastery. I love the quotes that he
included in his talk:
Plato:
“The first and best victory is to conquer self; to be conquered by self is, of
all things, the most shameful and vile.”
da
Vinci: “You will never have a greater or
lesser dominion than that over yourself.” …“the height of a man’s success is
gauged by his self-mastery; the depth of his failure by his self-abandonment. …
And this law is the expression of eternal justice. He who cannot establish
dominion over himself will have no dominion over others.”
Solomon:
“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his
spirit than he that taketh a city.” (Prov. 16:32.)
As we learn about business and
entrepreneurship we are also learning about what’s actually most important. In
the world, especially the world of business, money is what comes first. In many
entrepreneurial ventures, time is consumed with getting the business off the
ground. As we learn and become more capable with the knowledge and abilities we
gain, we may have the tendency to put ourselves above others. None of this is
true. Money is not the most important thing. If that is your focus in starting
your business, you won’t succeed. As you start a business a great deal of time
is required. However, if you plan from the beginning that your family comes
first, you will succeed at finding enough time for both. As we learn and excel in
our education it is important to keep a correct perspective. All that we have comes
from our Heavenly Father. We are responsible for what we have been given. The
time will come when we will have to account for what we’ve done with what God’s
given us. Keeping in mind that all we have isn’t really ours helps us to be
more generous with what we have. There’s so much we can do to bless the lives
of those around us.
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry - Week 4
This week has been
packed with great information. The part that I was most inspired by was the
talk given by Jeff Sandefer, “A Hero’s Journey”. It was a talk given at a
devotional at BYU-I. I wish it was a written talk so I could have read and
re-read it. I did the best I could with taking notes while I watched it though.
I’d like to share in today’s post what I learned.
There was so much
valuable information in his message. Here’s a small portion of it:
He mentions we need to
live every moment like it matters - we need to live every moment like we have a
mission. He teaches it’s important to live a life of meaning. When you are older you will want to be able to
answer the following questions positively:
1. Have
I contributed something meaningful?
2. Was
I a good person?
3. Who
did I love and who loved me?
He says that using our God-given gifts will
bring us great joy. We can use these gifts to find our calling in life. What
need in the world is there that we can fill? What problems do we feel we were
put here on earth to solve?
As with friends, we need to choose our
co-workers wisely. We become like those we surround ourselves with. Here at
BYU-I it’s much easier to find incredible people that share our same values and
goals. In the working world, however, we need to be careful to surround
ourselves with people who share common goals and integrity.
As we go about our lives, working hard
to achieve our goals, we need to anticipate moments of great temptation. He
suggest we write a note to ourselves and place it in a time-capsule of sorts.
When the times of temptations come we can get this note out and remind
ourselves what our values are and need to always be. I really liked his note to
himself. It is a joke told by his father-in-law who is a minister: “Do you know
the difference between you and God? God never thinks he’s you.” It’s a great
reminder of how we need to watch out for pride. Especially as we experience
success.
Saturday, October 12, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry - Week 3
I really enjoyed the
study material from this week. There was an article we were required to read
that I had read in a previous semester. I’m so thankful that I was required to
read it again. I remember really enjoying it the first time, but after reading
it again I realized there was quite a bit of incredible information that I had
forgotten the specifics of. That’s what I’d like to share in this week’s post.
The article is “How Will You Measure Your Life?” by
Clayton M. Christensen. In this article Christensen asks three different
questions: First, how can I be sure that I’ll be happy in my career? Second,
how can I be sure that my relationships with my spouse and family become an
enduring source of happiness? And third, how can I be sure I’ll stay out of
jail.
The first question is
given a quote by Frederick Herzberg. He says “the powerful motivator in our
lives isn't money; it’s the opportunity to learn, grow in responsibilities,
contribute to others, and be recognized for achievements. Christensen concludes
that management is the most noble of professions if it’s practiced well. No other occupation offers as many ways to
help others learn and grow, take responsibility and be recognized for
achievement, and contribute to the success of a team. It’s a priceless opportunity
to build people up.
The second question is
answered by teaching about the importance of creating a strategy for your life.
For Christensen, having a clear purpose in life has been essential. It was
something he had to think long and hard about before understanding. He decided
to commit one hour every night to reading, thinking, and praying about why God
put him on this earth. It was time well spent. He applies that knowledge of the
purpose of his life every day. Clarity about our purpose in life will trump
academic knowledge every time.
And the final question
is answered by having us avoid the “marginal costs” mistake. When Christensen
was sixteen he decided that he would not participate in sports on Sunday. This
was a huge upset for his basketball team and coach. They pressured him to make
an exception just this once. He chose not to break his commitment – so didn't
play in the championship game. He says that resisting the temptation whose
logic was “In this extenuating circumstance, just this once, it’s OK” has
proven to be one of the most important decisions of his life. Why? Because his
life has been one unending stream of extenuating circumstances. Had he crossed
the line just that one time, he would have done it over and over in the years
that followed. This is how we stay out of jail. Never assume that crossing the
line is OK “just this once.” He also teaches that it’s crucial to take a sense
of humility into the world. You can be humble only if you feel really good
about yourself – and you want to help those around you feel really good about
themselves too.
I love how he ends his
article: “I've concluded that the metric by which God will assess my life isn't
dollars but the individual people whose lives I've touched. Don’t worry about
the prominence you have achieved; worry about the individuals you have helped
become better people. Think about the metric by which your life will be judged,
and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be
judged a success.”
Saturday, October 5, 2013
Entrepreneurial Journal Entry – Week 2
This week was full of great readings! I feel the
common thread throughout all the videos and articles was that of ethics,
honesty and integrity.
I’d like to focus my entry this week on the
article “True Blue, Through and Through”
by Sheri Dew. She gives great steps to take to evaluate oneself to make sure we
are living our life with integrity.
1. Decide today, once and
for all, that you will be worthy of trust. The
Holy Ghost is not able to inspire or endorse the words or actions of someone
who is not true and who can’t be trusted.
2. Have faith that the
Lord can and will help you, and then diligently seek His help. Faith is the first principle of the gospel because it is
our faith that activates the power of the Atonement in our lives.
3. Make covenants and keep
them. Now is the time to learn to be precisely honest.
Now is the time to commit yourself to a life of integrity.
4. Stand up for what you
believe. It is not possible to denounce who you are, or
to live beneath who you are, and be happy.
5. Expect your integrity
to be challenged. Metaphorically speaking, be on the lookout for
Potiphar’s wife. She will show up again and again. Count on test of your
integrity. But also know that every time we choose to be obedient, every time
we make a tough but righteous choice, our integrity will be fortified.
6. Don’t give up. “I know of no easy formula for success. Persist, persist, PERSIST;
work, work, WORK – is what counts in the battle of life.” Heber J. Grant.
7. Covenant (or renew your
covenant) with our Heavenly Father and His Son to do what you came here to do. For doing what we came here to do is the ultimate expression
of our integrity.
May we be like the Sons of Heleman – who were
strict to remember God day in and day out, and who were true at all times to
whatsoever thing with which they had been entrusted.
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